A Pastoral Letter from Rev. Bill
This afternoon, Calgary Police announced that investigators have found a body believed to be Parker, the 11-year-old boy whose disappearance has held the attention, concern, and hope of people across Calgary and beyond. While formal identification remains with the Office of the Chief Medical Examiner, our hearts are already turning toward a family facing unimaginable grief.
For nearly two weeks, all Calgarians have searched, prayed, shared Parker’s photograph, checked neighbourhoods, and held onto hope for a different outcome. The search for Parker drew people together with shared purpose and compassion. Today we hold Parker’s family and loved ones in our prayers. We also remember the police officers, first responders, search and rescue volunteers, and the many members of our community who gave so generously of themselves throughout the search.
The death of a child touches something deep within each of us. Even if you never knew Parker or his family, this news may leave you feeling sad, anxious, unsettled, or simply heartbroken. It may also bring back memories of other losses or experiences. Whatever your response, I want you to know that it is a human response to a heartbreaking tragedy, and whatever you are feeling is held in God’s grace.
If the children or youth in your life have been following this story, they may have questions or emotions they don’t yet have the words to express. They may be looking to the adults around them for reassurance, comfort, and a sense of safety. Take time to listen, and to offer honest, age-appropriate answers. Your calm presence, your patience, and your love will matter more than having the right words.
Friends, please be gentle with yourself in the days ahead. If this news has affected you more deeply than you expected, don’t struggle through that burden by yourself. Reach out to someone you trust. Talk with family or friends. Connect with a counsellor or another helping professional if that would be helpful. Your ministers are also here for you. If you need someone to listen, to pray with you, or simply to sit with you in this difficult moment, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us.
As people of faith, we entrust Parker to the God who knows every child by name, whose love is deeper than our sorrow, and whose compassion never fails. We pray for Parker, for his family, for everyone who searched and hoped, and for all whose hearts are heavy today.
May God bless and keep us all,
Rev. Bill Weaver
